Lately, as i've been working through repressed memories from sexual abuse as a child and Master is helping me deal with the gamut of emotions that goes through that, i end up having what We call "little days". Days that i want my stuffed giraffes (BB and Reid :) ) and to sit on Master's lap and be taken care of more than usual.
These days are becoming more and more consistent in my life. Every day isn't a "little day" but when i have too many non little days, when i have to be in charge and make all the decisions, i feel the weight of all of it and my desire to be taken care of, to cuddle my stuffed babies and just be little is more obvious.
This week has been FULL of days that i don't get to be little... Every single day is full of me Being completely in charge and not Being taken care of and i'm really feeling that this evening. Today is day 6 and i have 2-3 more days before things get back to "normal".
Normally i'm still in charge but i'm not the only one around to be in charge so it's not such a heavy weight on my shoulders.
Master is still very far away, states away, but my move date is getting much closer. This will all very much better when i'm able to be with Him everyday. He is so amazing, He goes everything He can while We are apart. He allows me to Skype and email and call to help but i'm trying not to add to His stress or take away time from His parents visit this week.
Does anyone else struggle with this? Do any of y'all have "little days"? What do you do to combat these feelings, if anything?
Thanks for letting me vent:).
~His kitten
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